What women really want is a mystery to men

What women really want is a question even Einstein failed to answer and died.

okay I admit, it’s not easy to understand us, well most of the times, yes! we are different but, really we are not as complicated or as mysterious as some men make us out to be.

So, what do you think WE (women) want?

Diamonds? a big house and a car? bank balance? a trip to Paris?

Reality check, babes!

Okay, let’s not play coy here, we do need and crave wanting those things in life, provided a man can afford to give those luxuries to a woman but, that’s not ‘ ALL‘ we want. What we want can’t be bought with money.

What women really want your money can’t buy

Despite man labeling women as gold diggers or only after their money isn’t true for all women.  We don’t always want your money.All we want is your ‘Love‘Care‘  ‘Attention’ and ‘Respect’.


We often see women getting dishearten once they enter into a relationship, or after some time of their married life, as they feel the love they experienced once has vanished somewhere, and there is no more attraction between the couple.

What I feel is that a couple should always treat each other as their dates, always surprise each other with flowers and gifts, constantly remind each other of their love, no matter how busy they are, this will help to keep the magic alive in their marriage.

Also read: I need a break

Things Women really want from Men

Following are the few things that we want.

Lots of hugs & kisses

We want everything from hugs, kisses and unexpected phone calls to say,’ I love you’

Your  Time and Undivided Attention

Yes, we want your Undivided attention, that’s totally focused on us, without you playing on your iPhones and, pretending to listen to us, we want us to be your center of attention when you are with us.

Center of Attention

We want us to be your center of attention when you are with us, without your mind wandering over other things, we want your uninterrupted time as we look forward to this ‘us time together’ all day long.

Care for Us

We want you to Care for us, when we get sick or feeling down, we want to know you care for us and yes you are really concerned, yes we need you to put it in words, without you thinking that, we will assume it.

Really Trust

We want you to really Trust us, without withholding something that’s bothering you, we want you to share it with us, and we assure you, we will stand by you.

Keep on reminding us

We want you to constantly remind us that you have not stopped Loving us and that you will always love us, no matter what.

Appreciate us -always

We want you to Appreciate us for our little efforts, for when we clean the house so that you find it pleasant to look at, or when we cook your favorite food, we want you to appreciate our little gestures, that we perform to make you happy.

Really Look at us And Praise

We want you to ‘Really look’ at us and Praise us, as we dress up just for you  and, put on makeup to look our best for you.

Your bestie

We want to be your ‘best friend,’ meaning best of all friends…as no relationship is complete without friendship.


It is really that simple to please us..all it takes is  Love…Affection…and Care. And if a man really put his heart into winning a woman over it’s not difficult a task for him.

What in your opinion do Women want?

Do you want to find out what men really want? please comment below so I know if you want me to do a next post on that.



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